December 5, 2025

About Her

A 30-year-old woman. All grown up. Been having this blog since she was in junior high. Not a clinical psychologist anymore like she was trained to. Tried to be for two years but didn't work for her. Life happens, things happen. Now married (since 2023) to an amazing classmate of her when she was in her first masters (yes, she did more than one masters, yes, she finished only one). Funny how love works. Used to not believe in anything remotely close to love. She doesn't own a house as she moves back and forth between Sydney, Yogyakarta, and her hometown, Banjarmasin. Still, is trying to live her life-long dream of becoming a writer. Convincing herself that she is one already as writing is literally all she do everyday. Her ambition is always to finish writing a book. But haven't been since forever (seven years old, when she started writing). She promised herself that she will once she turned 30. Soon realize she won't. But in the past year, she's made much more progress on her work-in-progress than she was in her past writings. Pretty proud. Not quiet, because she needs to actually finish it. 

Email: kalistavidyadhara@gmail.com 

Instagram: @kalvid_